The Please Do Not Call List........

Ladies and gentlemen we interrupt your regularly scheduled programming to air a special presentation.....The Foxybrown Show will not be aired today but will be replaced by "Red Takes On" which is hosted by "Red" of TFBS and will be narrated by Foxybrown.

Change is inevitable, it's also not easy and becoming acclimated to new situations and new settings can drain you mentally and physically, speaking from personal experience it can also be a cute way to lose a few pounds as the stress begins to wear on you low and heavy. When there is a glitch in your MATRIX it just seems like nothing can go your way.

"What about your friends, are they going to be around, will they every let you down"?

I guess the answer to this question is yes and hell yeah! We love our friends dearly but there are days when we want to just give them a fast one in the ass.

I have opted to leave the footage out of this special but rather get to the moral of the story.

A friend recently asked me "How can I better understand someone"? After I thought long and hard about it my response was this:

Once you "accept" someone you "understand" that the individual can only be the best that they can be and will only be able to do what they are willing to do. Keep in mind this is not always guaranteed to be exactly what you want but may very well be the best that this person can provide at this point in time.

Once we accept our friends/family for what and who they are: Good, Bad, Ugly or indifferent only then will we truly "understand" the roles that these people play in our lives.

In closing, we cannot change people or the way they do things, we also cannot put our lives on hold waiting for that change to happen. However, we do have the ability to work on ourselves and do the things differently and just maybe that will inspire someone to try a new approach.

In the meantime just live.........Oh and remember "You are the bar"!